Marriage, a decision

Yet another girl is getting married. Wow congratulation!!!
But why am I thinking about it?! Common! Keep a cool head, everyday girls get married and start their lives and one day you will too.
But…! What but?!

But some marriages give a strange feeling, don’t know how to explain!!!

I am thinking about a girl's wedding, a girl whom I find to be quick, active, attractive and smart.

How does it matter to me? Really, it doesn’t matter. Sorry I’m lying at this moment. Truth to be told, it matters in some deepest corner of my heart. Wished she would have made a far better choice (Don’t jump! Read all).

The simple reason is I work on philosophy of equal matches. When we marry and we are given freedom to choose without any conditions, I feel that smart people should obviously make the smartest choices.

But on the same time I know few people who make huge sacrifices too. They wait for a long time and are reluctant to take their decisions. They think about family, parents and other things. Sometimes these people make a choice because of the heavy responsibilities lying on their shoulders. I believe they know what they are doing, but personally I think they deserve more.

Sometimes, I feel selfish. If I had been and thought this way, I would have made many people happy. But as I read religious texts I’m strengthened with a great feeling of leaving decisions to Allah. Why do we always forget that he makes decisions not us?!

We think too much about a lot of things and if we don’t get them or end up loosing them we go sad, but why don’t we focus more on the fact that Allah ,who loves us more than 99 mothers and knows all about us, wouldn’t make us sad. Every decision we leave on him Inshallah will be great and will give us felicity.
Wow! I know everything and I’m very strong. No actually,I am only a human being and I want to think.

May Allah forgive and give us the strength to do our best and leave everything to him. That gives real pleasure in life. A pleasure only a believer can feel.

I pray Allah SWT for everything good and not to burden us with what we can not sustain. Lets always ask “Rabbana hablana min azwajina wadzurriyatina qurrata a'yun waj'alna lil muttaqina imama” (QS. 25 : 74) …….amiin ya rabbal 'aalamiin